Monty Python remains one of my favorite sources of comic relief. They find humor in absurdity. Python’s comedy is rooted in a futile search for significance in an incomprehensible universe. Have you seen their movie “The Meaning of Life,” utterly devoted to countenancing the absurd?

Take the Dead Parrot Sketch. A man walks into a pet shop, hoping to return a recently purchased “Norwegian Blue” parrot, which is clearly dead. The shopkeeper, however, refuses to acknowledge that fact. “It’s pining for the fjords,” “It’s resting,” “Stunned,”—his insistence that the dead parrot is alive borders on madness until the customer bangs the petrified bird on the countertop. To make matters worse, the shopkeeper offers the customer a slug in exchange.

The sketch hinges on a basic assumption: that we expect others to see things as they are—or at least as they appear. The pet store proprietor clings to being wrong. But we all know the absurdity of people whose reality ignores facts and disregards truth. This shift from reality transforms the dead parrot sketch into a surreal, comic experience.

Monty Python taps into our deep-seated desire for order and meaning in a universe that refuses to provide either order or meaning. Sometimes, the world seems like that pet shop, doubling down on lies. Your best response may be to bang a dead parrot on the countertop.

The Pythons look at the world and find indifference, chaos, and futility. But instead of despair, they point out how funny that can be.

Life doesn’t always make sense, and we should not pretend it does. So, who is tasked with pointing out life’s absurdities? For one, comedians. Not just the comedians, though—also the rabbis. Comedians would have you believe that absurdity is merely fodder for humor. The world continues being preposterous, just for laughs.

On the other hand, the rabbis witness absurdity and ask you to have belief and faith. For rabbis, it’s not the absurdity of the world that matters, but rather how we respond.

Albert Camus, author of The Stranger, rebelled against escaping from the harshness of the human condition. For him, a true hero accepts that life is bleak and, even, if meaningless, presses forward, nonetheless. Camus’ ideal is Sisyphus, condemned to roll a rock up a mountain daily, only to watch it roll back down that night. Despite the failure, and the absurdity of the task, Sisyphus tries again. Comedians have tried to tackle the tale of Sisyphus but there are very few good jokes about him. There’s this one joke about Sisyphus but it goes on and on and on. . .

Camus finds meaning in struggling each day, even if it is without reward. Camus despised the madness, violence, and oppression of the 20th century. His response was to appreciate living each day, even as we accept the insanity of returning to push rocks up hills followed by the inevitability of death. Judaism is more hopeful than Camus. We believe that life demands we seek better options than pushing a rock up a hill.

Two Jewish holidays focus on responding to life’s absurdity: Yom Kippur and Purim. On Yom Kippur, we ask, “Who shall live, and who shall die?  We rehearse for death by wearing white and fasting. There’s a book in heaven marking our fate and gates that close at day’s end. We are praying for life, while fully confronting death. These rituals may seem farcical. But these rituals help us to focus on ways of responding to the world’s inherent irrationality.

The other holiday of absurdity is Purim. The Zohar, Judaism’s premier mystical text, connects Yom Kippur and Purim. The pairing lies in the name: “Yom HaKippurim,” implying that something absurd or random will happen in the future. The mystics believe that one Yom Kippur to come, we will rejoice and dance, transforming difficulties into delight.

Purim is an absurd story. Esther, a Jew, married the Persian King. When a decree was issued to kill the Jews, she asked her people to fast and pray. (Sort of like Yom Kippur when we fast and pray to avert the decree). Esther revealed her Jewish identity to the King and exposed Haman’s plot to kill the Jews.

The King, in a bizarre twist, issued a new decree allowing the Jews to defend themselves by killing the people originally ordered to destroy them—and the Jews did so. Yes, the world always finds it absurd that Jews can destroy their enemies.

One could interpret Purim as comedy. Rather, I see it as a story of faith and courage. Because sometimes, absurdity, like a King’s proclamation, is neither benign nor comical but rather quite dangerous. Time and again, Jews fought/fight for life in the face of a pointless decree of death. Purim is about faith in the future, taking ownership of Jewish identity at a time when it was imprudent to do so.

Is faith absurd? Rabbi Noah Farkas wrote, “Many philosophers call the idea of faith “‘living in the absurd”’ because we can never truly know life’s meaning.”  Philosophers argue that we discover facts through science, but faith? He wrote: “Faith operates beyond facts. Faith is an adventure, pushing us between comfort and discomfort, from the known to the unknown.” The scientific mind rebels against faith, even as faith makes life more pleasant.

Dr. Alan L. Mittleman, in his 2024 book Absurdity, and Meaning in Contemporary Philosophy and Jewish Thought, takes this idea further. Mittleman shows how Judaism, just like philosophy, grapples with deep doubts and perplexities. Instead of shutting down conversation, Judaism promotes dialogue. We dispel meaninglessness when we engage and when we question the world around us.

As Jews, we are particularly attuned to absurdity, perhaps because of our history – never setting down roots for too long, always somewhat on the periphery of mainstream society. We’ve kept our humor intact, even in dark times. Yet, in Judaism, the punchline is different. We cling to three words that change everything: faith, hope, and love.

Each day you rise in gratitude is an act of faith. Each Jewish child born is a protest of hope. Every mundane act is a demonstration of love. Because of these truths, Judaism cares less about what we accomplish and more about who we are. We aren’t merely like Sisyphus, endlessly pushing rocks up a mountain. Instead, how we live—how we carry our burdens, whether trudging or dancing—expresses our faith, hope, and love for life. That is how we contend with absurdity. That is my connection to God.

God’s expectation? God expects us to live as an expression of love, with reason, intelligence, and compassion, for the sake of a future we may never know.

These are times when embracing our Jewishness may seem absurd to some. We are, after all, a people who are often hated. In Nazi Germany, no Esther was able to avert the decree. Eighty years later, after October 7, there was a wellspring of anti-Semitism yet again.

In 2024, or 5785, Jew-hatred persists. In the three months after Hamas attacked Israel, anti-Semitic acts in the United States rose by 360%. Anti-Semitism is increasing most rapidly among young people. The old tropes and groundless conspiracy theories have taken on new life. All Jews are now viewed as oppressors, not the oppressed. According to the ADL nearly half of Americans believe Jews are irritating, dishonest in business, and have too much power in the United States. And we know this to be absurd.

Absurdity permeates political discourse. Today we face war when there is enough land for peaceful coexistence. You know the region I’m speaking about. The greatest number of displaced people due to war is . . . Sudan. What was the last time you saw protestors blocking the Brooklyn Bridge over the war in Sudan?  Absurd!

Or the gay, Jewish Americans calling out “from the river to the sea” without acknowledging that the Arabs who coined that phrase have no room for them as gay, Jewish, or American.

Or Marjorie Taylor Green, congresswoman from Georgia, who recently said “they control the weather.”

Or Ta Nehisi Coates’ book “The Message”, in which he portrays Israel’s treatment of Palestinians as a moral crime, without ever mentioning the history, Hamas, and denying the right of a Jewish State to exist.

Or those Israelis who think they can build walls, knock down houses, and confiscate land to create safe homes for themselves. Yes, Jews can add to the absurdity of this world.

And in a month, people who fear that Jews are imperiled and not powerful might have a Jewish first gentleman in the White House and a Jewish Majority leader in the Senate.

So why draw attention to ourselves when there are so many like Haman who want to destroy us? Why do the members of this tribe double down on this religion? Why would any member of the tribe want to stay in this club?

Because being Jewish transcends the absurdity of life. On our holidays, Judaism affirms human redemption (Yom Kippur), holy insurrection (Passover), and happiness in freedom (Sukkot). The world remains absurd, but our survival and hopefulness defy absurdity and surpass comedy.

Yom Kippur and Purim challenge us to decide: can life’s absurdity inspire courage and faith to make a better future?

Judaism teaches us to stand up for morality. We begin with ourselves. through self-reflection and self-criticism. This is the purpose of Yom Kippur—to infuse meaning into our Jewish identity by railing against the absurdity of hate and oppression, starting with our souls. The purpose of Purim is to connect with Esther’s courage. Like Esther, we must work to change the world because each human being is worthy of a better world.

We Jews, who see miracles in the mundane, and who create solace from sorrow, can rebuild a broken world that seems inextricably broken. We are the legacy of Esther, affirmed on Yom Kippur. We stand proudly as Jews, defying absurdity.

In a world increasingly plagued by uncertainty and chaos, it is easy to feel disoriented, detached, and even lost. Life may seem absurd, and faith may seem meaningless, but I live my life proudly and loudly as – a Jew—a beacon against absurdity and meaninglessness. My Judaism stands as a profound counterforce, a bulwark against madness, offering a framework, direction, and resilience in the face of a chaotic world.

Shabbat, for instance, is a profound response to the chaos of the workweek. This weekly practice offers a powerful reminder that, even in a seemingly irrational world, we can create sacred moments. Kiss your mezuzah when you enter your home in gratitude for a safe place to live, eat in a sukkah next week in recognition of the fragility of this world, show up in support of the hostages as one of the greatest mitzvot in our tradition, and support Jewish-based charities as tzedakah is the easiest way to improve this world.

Rather than resigning ourselves to despair, rather than unceasingly pushing that same rock up that same hill each day, Judaism transcends the absurd. We acknowledge the irrational and the unjust but respond with a commitment to justice, mercy, and hope.

For me, Judaism is a daily declaration that I matter, you matter, and the world matters. This is my expression of hope, my declaration of faith, and my promise to future generations: being Jewish can and will matter—for you even when the world is filled with absurdity.

Rabbi Evan J. Krame

 

There’s a TED talk that begins with a story—a tale of a transatlantic flight, where a couple heads to a vacation in Scandinavia. Suddenly, turbulence strikes! The plane dips and sways, and from the back, a band of teens erupts in joyful whoops, as if riding a roller coaster of the skies.

But then, the turbulence escalates—an even more abrupt drop! Ceiling panels tremble, wires hang like vines in a storm, and dust clouds the air. Fear grips the hearts; some weep, some pray. The captain’s voice cuts through the chaos: “Please stay calm! This aircraft is structurally secure and built to endure far greater turbulence!” And yet, as the plane steadies, the TED talk speaker shares a truth that resonates deep within: she no longer feels safe flying. Her husband, however, marvels at the craft’s resilience. Same facts, different conclusions.

There is a lesson here about perception! From one unfortunate episode, from the same set of facts, we can be filled with dread or awe. Will we tremble at the turbulence or lift our eyes in wonder? Both reactions spring from the same experience. Neither is wrong!

Our responses are shaped by our histories, our personalities, our very beings.

Some might call this “confirmation bias”—the tendency to see what we wish to see, to cling to our beliefs while dismissing the contrary. But I stand here today, my friends, to speak of a greater truth—a truth about the turbulent times that we navigate, particularly when it comes to Israel.

I was a history major in college, I went to law school, got a master’s in taxation and then smicha as a rabbi.  None of these qualify me to speak about the geopolitics of the Middle East. I am just barely qualified to discuss the moral and ethical dilemma of the last year of war. And to those of you who think you know my position on Israel, . . . I haven’t settled on a position. Like many of you, I have teetered on the see-saw of emotions – crying for our Israeli sisters and brothers, lamenting the Palestinian suffering.

If I did not speak of Israel, it would be rabbinic malpractice! And if you squirm in your seats, I invite you to take a breath. I tried to chose words steeped in our rich, complex Jewish tradition. I stand here only qualified to ponder the moral and ethical dilemmas we face. Like many of you, I have wavered on this see-saw of emotion—grieving for our Israeli sisters and brothers, lamenting the suffering of Palestinians.

Indeed, we have all endured a year of turbulence, wrestling with the events since October 7. While some wish to turn away, others strive to remain informed. Some focus on the dread and others are filled with awe. Yet we are all on this same flight, navigating through the storm, our biases tethering us to certain truths, while others slip away.

The Torah teaches us that we may defend ourselves against those who wish to harm us. Leviticus 26:7 declares, “Your army shall give chase to your enemies, and they shall fall before you by the sword.” The Talmud confirms that if enemies besiege you, even on Shabbat, you may act to protect your life.

Yet, Proverbs 24:17 warns, “If your enemy falls, do not exult; if he trips, let your heart not rejoice.” There is no moral equivalence in mourning the loss of life, Jewish life, Christian life, Bedouin life, or Arab life, the life of my beloveds, and the lives of my enemies.

We are reminded in the Midrash: as the Egyptians drown in the sea, the angels wish to sing, but the Lord rebukes them, saying, “My creations are drowning, and you are singing before me?” We, too, must not rejoice in the downfall of any person, for we all descend from one person, Adam, one source, God.

And God is not gladdened by death; God mourns with us.

These have been horrific days October 7, October 8, October 9, October 10, and — days that have stretched into sorrow, loss, and continued suffering, for Israel and for its adversaries.

We must attack before we are struck, yes! Israel must push back evil from its borders. But we must also pray for the wicked to change, not to perish. We cannot sing while God’s children are lost to violence, bullets and bombs.

Jewish tradition is asking: Can you hold both ideas simultaneously?  Can you both be afraid of flying while marveling at the technology that allows planes to fly safely?  Can you support a secure Israel without encouraging excessive violence to human life?

Jewish tradition asks us: can we hold these two competing truths together in our minds and hearts? Can we support a secure Israel while advocating for the sanctity of life? The first anniversary of the October 7 attack approaches, and with it, commemorations and demonstrations worldwide. What will be our goal? Revenge or reconciliation? Or something in between.

In the space between awe for God’s creation and fear of man’s capacity for evil, comes Morality. Morality is complex. Morality requires both courage and compassion.

During the American Revolutionary War, the patriots deployed techniques learned from the Native Americans – what we now refer to as guerilla warfare. Subterfuge, ambush, and stealth wore down the British. Guerilla war demoralizes the enemy and gives the radical self-ascribed moral standing.

In the twentieth century and now twenty-first century, terrorism is the continuation of politics by brutal means. The tools of war eveloved. The processes of war changed.

Terrorists flew planes into buildings. Terrorists use gliders to cross border walls and rockets to decimate homes.

As Carl von Clausewitz, a political observer and moralist, would say “war is nothing but the continuation of politics with other means.” As the world became accustomed to terrorism, Clausewitz would describe terrorism as another political tool.

The Palestinian liberation movement and Muslim extremists embraced worldwide terrorism as their politics of choice. They too claimed moral superiority and declared terrorism as a moral duty.  Americans did it to fight the British. Jews did it to gain control over Palestine.

Judaism advises that morality should dictate our path. Our tradition favors peace over violence, and co-existence over war. Psalm 34 calls us to “Seek peace and pursue it.”

Yet, we should not forget that the right to self-defense is a moral imperative, too. We must balance the sanctity of life with the right to defend one’s self. If we believe in the sanctity of life, then Israel must defend itself.

Chicago-born writer G.P. Gottlieb has written, “You are morally right to wish for a Palestinian state that recognizes Israel and seeks peaceful coexistence … It’s ethically caring to wish that Israel kills only Hamas militants and Hezbollah fighters — and the world is right to be upset about the deaths of ALL innocent civilians

“But you are morally bankrupt if you don’t demand that Hamas return all hostages. You are morally bankrupt if you don’t demand the eradication of the Hamas terror regime, which began this war …  with the horrifying and barbaric massacre of 1200+ babies, children, women, and elderly, and the kidnapping of over 240 civilians. [And you are] especially [morally bankrupt] because the Hamas charter …advocates the … destruction of Israel and the death or expulsion of all its Jews.”

Moral equivalency invalidates rights and obligations, Moral equivalency adds to the anguish and suffering of people.

To those who only speak of Israel’s moral obligations, or speak of Palestinian suffering,

To those who speak only of Israeli anguish or who speak only of Palestinian terror,

Both Jewish law, and a moral universe, say that there is no “only.”  There is no “only.”

We all have access to the same facts, but our perspectives naturally narrow. We are all flying on the same plane.  Some favor awe for the miracle of flying. Others are filled by dread. But there will be bumpy flights and some accidents.  And there will be more travel, nervous flights, to vacations and family visits. There is no “only.

I stand here proud to advocate for Israel—my heritage, our future. I weep for the Palestinian lives lost, for my Jewish tradition demands compassion. Both truths can coexist. Both must coexist.

I can disapprove of the current Israeli government while decrying the evil of Hamas and Hezbollah. Both are valid.

I can advocate for peace while pressing Congress to provide weapons to Israel. Both are necessary!

So let us be sensitive to our choices. Let us support Israel’s right to defend itself without celebrating lost lives. This, my friends, is our Jewish tradition—a call to morality when the way is not clear. When it seems like the ceiling is caving, and the journey is fraught that is the time to sense both the dread and the awe.

May the One who makes peace in the heavens bring peace to our world. May we safeguard those under attack, protect the vulnerable, soften the hearts of the warlike, and strengthen those who defend the innocent

And as I lament the loss of good and blameless souls, I stand proud, declaring with all my heart, Od Yavo Shalom, There will be peace.

Pasta Social Club x The Jewish Studio
Sunday, April 11 | 3pm Central / 4pm Eastern

Ingredients

Serves 2-4
300 grams (2 cups) semolina or semola rimacinata flour
150 ml (⅔ cup) warm water
More semolina flour, for dusting

Serves 4-6
450 grams (3 cups) semolina or semola rimacinata flour
225 ml (1 cup) warm water
More semolina flour, for dusting

Equipment
Large mixing bowl
Fork
Butter knife
Bench scraper or sharp knife
Wooden cutting board or surface
Gnocchi board, cheese grater, sushi mat, zester, or any sturdy textured surface
Baking sheet
Plastic wrap

Another challenging year. A second “corona seder.” A year ago we did not imagine a second Passover with social distancing. Yet, we can reinvent the seder with a fresh look at the core commandment: In each and every generation a person must view himself as though he personally left Egypt.

1. The constriction of movement is a key element of the Passover story. Start by considering the word for Egypt (mitzrayim) מצרים. Mitzrayim comes from the same root as the word for narrow place. How can this seder be a celebration of our pending exit from restriction? What ritual or ritual object might you add to the seder plate to remember this time?

2. On the last night in Egypt the people were instructed by God: “None of you shall go outside the door of his house until morning.” (Exodus 12:22) The directive to constrict your movement can be understood either as holy or oppressive. How are these two views represented in our world today?

3. As difficult as this era of Corona has been, enslavement is far worse. Where does enslavement continue in our modern world? Ask seder participants to offer a perspective on modern slavery such as sex trafficking, Uighur internment camps, unlawful recruitment of child soldiers in Africa . . .

4. Considering the mitzvah to view one’s-self as personally having left Egypt there is both the physical and psycho-spiritual aspect of this exercise. How might your memory of surviving this time of corona virus be a physical or tangible trigger for actions you might undertake – giving to charity, supporting vaccination efforts, political activism?

5. The exodus from Egypt engendered faith in a despondent, enslaved Hebrew people. How has the corona virus affected your faith? Have you questioned God for the pandemic or related the development of a vaccine to your faith in God?

Jews have always deployed memory as a tool for comprehension and action. Let’s use this Passover Seder as a way of committing ourselves toward creating a better world for ourselves and for others. Chag Sameach.

Rabbi Evan J. Krame